Growing up I always
fantasized about the day I would get married and start a family. Now that I am
24 and looking forward to it, I find myself getting extremely pissed at the way
people my age are treating the institution of marriage like a joke. As I watch
my peers plan for their wedding only to end up in divorce court I can’t help
but to ask why they want to go through with it knowing the outcome. Some are
doing it because they think it is the only way to give their children a family
life but they’re not thinking about how hard it’s going to be to explain to
their children that mommy and daddy are getting a divorce. Others are marrying
for money or just to throw an extravagant party.
I’m
not someone who is against the institution of marriage however I think that
love should exist before someone does it. I also think that you must know the
individual you’re going to marry and be able to accept who they are because if
you’re expecting them to change they are not. The statistics say that the
divorce rate
amongst young people is extremely high in the 21st century than the
rate of our parents, maybe their parents married for love.
Try the marriage calculator.
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